I know I have been very quiet and spotty for the past few months.  My family life has been in upheaval resplendent with changes.   Many of the changes were good, others were not, but all were horribly stressful.  One of the reasons for my dark post the other day has ended.  My husband’s father lost his battle with Pancreatic Cancer last night. The last few weeks have been beyond stressful.  I might be spotty for a bit longer.  It is hard to think of a post under the level of duress that we have been under.  Thank you for your patience. Shonnie